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Grimm
(@grimm)
Eminent Member Customer

-What happened/why you were banned

I offline raided someone who trusted me deeply. I had a case or two of FailRP instances, which I feel terrible about.

-Why you feel you should be unbanned/gave a second chance

I feel that I should be unbanned because if you want the truth, here it is. I am a roleplayer, I am an actor in real life so I take this stuff to heart, but when it is only me on a server I get greedy with everything that I can do, within the limits of the rules or not. I took quick action without thinking of the possible consequences. I now know the full outcome of my actions, yes, actions speak louder than words, and yes I know I fucked up big time. I still feel that it was unfair for someone to go straight to nylex without making a report on me for this offline raid which ultimately got me banned, but it was honestly what I deserved. I know that now. This may all just be a waste of my time for me to even be typing this out because as long as there are people that personally dont like me for my past, I won’t get unbanned, but there really is no way for me to prove that I can be better anymore. I can and will change, I used to think that if no one knew who did it, that I would be safe, but karma is a bitch and it came back to me. When I applied for whitelist, I raised my standards, but without letting anyone know my standards to keep me accountable, I quickly fell back into my lower standards.

To Nylex, I am sorry for scamming you into getting me Arma 3 in return for me being in a video that I didn’t even finish. I made promises and I broke them, I still feel awful about it. If you have the slightest amount of forgiveness I will accept it, but if not, I understand. I scammed you, yea, that day you said you needed me, I really didn’t feel like getting on to finish the video, I betrayed your trust then and there. I don’t expect full trust to be put into me again by you or anyone that you associate with, but I do respect you and everything you do immensely. I know I will never be anywhere near what you are, or even come close but I can surely try if you only give me a chance.

To the Staff I am sorry for making your jobs a living hell while I was online because you constantly put up with people's shit and my shit just added to it, it wasn’t fair to you to have to deal with me, I should never have disrespected you when I was mad when you had to come online to talk to people. I just get so frustrated when people complain about shit happening to them, it makes me so mad, but when shit happens to me, I do the same thing so I’m a hypocrite.

I am human, I am going to make mistakes, but with my online presence, I can control what I do, I have thought through my entire time being online on your servers as a roleplayer. And I am proud of what I have done well, but ashamed overall of who I have become behind a screen. The real life me would never do any of this to anyone. I have probably the most regret for my past on these servers than anyone. The truth is, Roleplaying on your servers is the best thing I have ever experienced, I want to be that great roleplayer that everyone looks up to, but I have blurred that vision for a lot of people by my actions. I never thought I would have to type one of these out, but here I am, I thought I was invincible, but guess again. If you are reading this, please give me another chance, that is all that I ask, I don’t care if you don’t like me, but give me a chance to change myself, give me a chance to prove that I am more than just a disrespectful piece of shit that sits on the computer all day making everyones lives miserable. I love this community that you and the staff have created, I love the people in it, I love everything about it, I want to change, I want to be on the servers again. I quit unturned for a long time before coming back because I thought that you hated me and didn’t want anything to do with me. I guess I gave you a reason to hate me now, but I forgive you for hating me.

The militia group that I started, I was the cause of all of their bad choices, blame me not them, all of the bad things that have been said about me, I hate to admit it but they are all true. I am a liar, I am a scammer, I am hated by almost everyone, I have made some terrible choices both in game, and in real life recently and I hate myself for it. I hate the person I have become, I want a chance to redeem myself, I want to be able to rise up against all of the dds that are against me, I want to change. Give me the chance to change, I promise that you will not regret it. I will record everything I go from start to finish on the servers. No editing at all. I will prove that I am a better person, I will have my entire discord keep me accountable, I will think before I take action, I will consult with everyone for better judgement before doing anything that may have detrimental outcomes for me or someone else. Let me prove it to everyone, please. I have read the rules, I have read everything and taken it into account, that is all I did today, I sat and read and reflected on everything. I read this https://www.unturnedroleplay.com/rules/ and this https://www.unturnedroleplay.com/community/main-forum/whitelist-guide-to-rp-from-opti/ they have cleared all of my questions, and concerns up entirely, I have no doubt in my mind about wether something is ok or not, and if I do, I will consult with you, staff, or members of the community before taking action.

-Server I was banned from:

All of them.

-A link to your steam profile:

 

http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198143953280/

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Topic starter Posted : 09/07/2017 1:50 am
daniel123
(@daniel123)
Eminent Member Customer

holy shit kys your self your fucking gay, go get a real life

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Posted : 09/07/2017 2:08 am
Grimm
(@grimm)
Eminent Member Customer
Posted by: daniel123

 

holy shit kys your self your fucking gay, go get a real life

   
I have a life, I am an actor. I enjoy becoming characters, it is my life. you said kys your self. definition of kys is kill yourself. care to explain how I need to get a life?

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Topic starter Posted : 09/07/2017 2:31 am
Fisher
(@fisher)

"Im gonna turn a new leaf and become a merchant"
Offline raids shortly after.

You said often you´d change Grimm. And after the conversation we just had 5 minutes ago i can only say: No. You had so many chances in here. You made your name a bad one yourself, over and over again, without rly thinking about consequences. Now you got the cosequences of your actions, your shitty braindead, mind-fallout bullshit, so take them. Accept that you got punished ultimately for your actions, and you had a bigger window then others that got banned with proof, you got them multiple chances. And like a big memer said once, "It´s time to stop!". You even say yourself you thought you were invinceible, what makes your actions EVEN WORSE. No one is untouchable, unless you have your own server, which isnt the case here. I respect your apologies to Nylex and the staff, but the ones you should really apologize to are the people you FUCKED over and over, and over and over again, on EVERY server, even tho you state you LOVE THIS COMMUNITY SO MUCH. They are the one whos bit the shit you fabricated. And no, i don´t hate you, i hate what you did repeadetaly.

Fisher Cinderfall

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Posted : 09/07/2017 2:58 am
Grimm
(@grimm)
Eminent Member Customer

fisher I really don't know what to say

I am sorry, I know I didn't do anything to you, but with everything you just said I feel like I have done something to you.

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Topic starter Posted : 09/07/2017 3:18 am
Nylex
(@admin)
Illustrious Member Admin

Oh boy... I don't even know how to respond. I respect your honesty and apology, I wouldn't make any judgement nor take any action regarding the servers based on my opinion of you as a person- which is why I accepted your application in the first place as a player. Same outlook when I unwhitelisted you. 

Regarding the video thing, I offered you a deal in desperation for my career that'd been on hold for 2 months, and I took a risk holding up on my end too early before you could yours because I had trust in your word. It's pretty fucked up what you ended up doing, but it's also done and dusted. I'm over it. The one thing giving me a hard time believing/forgiving you is just how many times you haven't stuck to your word, the latter situation is a good example. 

Regarding the main part of this appeal, the servers, I got 1 report on you failRP-ing, but I just kinda let it go, then I got a report on you offline raiding. Having the mindset of gear and raiding isn't suited on the whitelisted server, it's more focused on interactions and character development. You gotta get out of the public server way of thinking, where your gear and raiding others is the primary focus. Most people on the whitelist are friendly and just wanting to have an interaction. As Pimpcane said, its not really me or staff that are too affected by this, it's the players who are there to play on a proper roleplaying server without unnecessary interruptions and immersion breaking situations.

When you and I first met and just played normally you were great at RP, had a really good experience with you, and that was on the public server! the Militia was also an impressive clan you managed to get together.

I believe you're a decent person, and your acting abilities are admirable. I appreciate you wanting to just come clean and get everything off your chest and move on. As mentioned previously- I'm not gonna look at this appeal any differently than any other player. It's a very good, honest, genuine appeal and I respect that. I'm also glad to see you looked over Opti's brilliant guide to roleplaying, and from the length and detail of this post, I can see you really do want to carry on playing on these servers.

Everyone will probably disagree with me here, and I'll be a hypocrite to myself but whatever- everyone deserves another chance.
I'm gonna put my trust into you one last time. I've unbanned you from every single public server and the Discord. 
If you wana be a respected member of the community like you say, I'm absolutely all for that and would love to see that happen. But most importantly I think everyone can agree that they'd like to see it happen before coming back to the whitelisted server. The discord is a great place to start, many friendly, active members there daily. The public serves also have a lot of known respected people on them (and a lot of the opposite lol). From there I'd be more than happy to re-whitelist you. If you're down, I'm down.

And to the rest of the community, even if you disagree, I'd like to ask you keep an open mind, put your views behind you and respect the clean slate and give Grimm a chance to prove himself as a respected member:) Hell, if I can do it, I'm sure you can too:D

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Posted : 09/07/2017 6:35 am
MrRawr
(@mrrawr)
Noble Member

Damn.. I don't know the dire ess of the crimes, but that appeal was so good! It's straight from the heart, honest, and very apologizing. It takes immense guts and courage to do something like that, and own up to it.. Everyone deserves another chance.

I agree absolutely with nylex. 

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Posted : 09/07/2017 7:18 am
PFQ
 PFQ
(@potionflingaqueen)
Honorable Member

He offline raided and fail RP'd and wouldn't really listen to others, if he changes, idc he can come back but he has to prove it first.

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Posted : 09/07/2017 10:57 am
MrRawr
(@mrrawr)
Noble Member

people make mistakes. Its just an offline raid, your base isnt even supposed to be your most valuable possesion, but yes, he needs a timeout, maybe later on he can re apply.

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Posted : 09/07/2017 11:56 am
Timothy
(@fleikez)
Estimable Member Customer

This is a really really good appeal, I mean he is mentioning his mistakes which is always the first step to change. I am the owner of the base who he raided, I mean I don't really care about being raided and all but I do like to enforce the rules, what he did was quite wrong but with all of this I am sure he is ready for a second chance and I totally forgive him for raiding me. This can be criticized but I think you deserve a second chance I mean everyone does, like denny who also raided me but now is rping really well and good friends with me!

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Posted : 09/07/2017 12:33 pm
Opti
 Opti
(@elmomick)
Reputable Member Customer

I see you took my advice, to be honest, to throw everything on the table, to actually admit that you've done something. This is what the difference is between being a teen or an adult. You owned up to what you've done recently and what you've done in the past, and I greatly respect that, I do not care what others think of this, some of my friends might disagree with it and others agree with it. I do was not against the report that was made against you, since there was 100% proof that you were the one doing it, and for that you were supposed to be punished and you have been.

Once again, I respect this, finally a good ban appeal, haven't seen one in a while now.

I think this man, now everything is out, should reapply, perhaps start with a new, fresh character. 

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Posted : 09/07/2017 2:12 pm
PFQ
 PFQ
(@potionflingaqueen)
Honorable Member

My barn and house could be blown to smitheriens for all i care, i just get mad when people steal my pitchfork @MR.RAWR.

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Posted : 09/07/2017 3:45 pm
MrRawr
(@mrrawr)
Noble Member

jeez youre bringing the pings to the forums?

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Posted : 09/07/2017 4:42 pm
Timothy
(@fleikez)
Estimable Member Customer
Posted by: Potion Flinga Queen

 

My barn and house could be blown to smitheriens for all i care, i just get mad when people steal my pitchfork @MR.RAWR.

   

You are legit saying bullshit to get free posts... SMH

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Posted : 10/07/2017 2:06 am
Surprise655
(@surprise655)

I texted Grimm. He is really touched by all of you, and Thanks Nylex heavily and will not let him down. he also thanks to all that supports him. He will be on vaca for 3 weeks and then he will be back to prove himself 😀

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Posted : 10/07/2017 5:09 am
diggydoggy, MrRawr, Timothy and 1 people reacted
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